In episode 15, “Life by Design,” Trina invites listeners to evaluate different areas of their lives—such as inner well-being, physical health, relationships, career, finances, social support, and adventure—by giving each a rating from 1 to 5. Through sharing her own reflections and scores, Trina underscores the value of self-awareness and taking purposeful steps toward improvement. She highlights how cultivating peace of mind, staying physically active, nurturing family ties, pursuing fulfilling work, achieving financial stability, building strong friendships, and seeking new experiences can all contribute to a more intentional and empowered life.
Do you feel you have a positive mindset, or are you pulled toward the negative, toward the down? Do you have a sense of self love, compassion and worth, or are you right now kind of living as your own worst critic? Do you feel this kind of foundation of inner peace in your life now, even if life is busy or chaotic, you can have this kind of glow or sense of inner peace. Do you feel that right now, or are your insides more frenetic or shaky or anxious? – Trina
TOPICS
The Concept of Rating Life Areas
- Trina discusses the idea of rating different areas of life, such as inner health, physical health, family, career, finances, circle, and adventure.
- She explains the use of star ratings to provide immediate feedback without overthinking.
- Trina shares her own experience with rating life areas and how it has helped her over the years.
- The goal is to be more aware of one’s life and make improvements where necessary.
Inner Health: Mindset and Mental Well-being
- Trina encourages listeners to rate their inner health, including mindset, mental health, self-love, and inner peace.
- She asks listeners to reflect on their current state of mind and whether they feel positive or anxious.
- Trina shares her own journey of maintaining inner health through podcasts, books, and personal growth.
- She advises listeners to take action steps if their rating is below a five, such as resolving conflicts or reading self-help books.
Physical Health: Fitness and Nutrition
- Trina discusses the importance of physical health and how it can vary based on age and life stage.
- She asks listeners to rate their current fitness level, nutrition, and sleep quality.
- Trina shares her own rating of 3.5 due to sleep issues and suggests potential action steps to improve it.
- She emphasizes the importance of capturing what is going well and what needs improvement.
Family: Quality of Time and Connections
- Trina talks about rating family life, including the depth of love and connections within the family.
- She asks listeners to consider the quality of time spent with family and the meaningfulness of their interactions.
- Trina shares her own rating of five and encourages listeners to write down what is going well in their family life.
- She advises listeners to take action if their rating is below a five, such as planning family activities or resolving conflicts.
Career: Job Satisfaction and Growth Opportunities
- Trina discusses rating career satisfaction, including enjoyment, growth opportunities, and impact.
- She asks listeners to consider their current job, side hustles, or career pursuits and rate them on a scale of one to five.
- Trina shares her own rating of 4.5 and suggests potential action steps for those who are not satisfied with their career.
- She emphasizes the importance of capturing what is going well and what needs improvement.
Finances: Debt, Security, and Savings
- Trina talks about rating financial health, including debt, security, savings, and future earning potential.
- She asks listeners to consider their current financial state, debt reduction efforts, and savings plans.
- Trina shares her own rating of four and suggests potential action steps for those who are not satisfied with their finances.
- She emphasizes the importance of capturing what is going well and what needs improvement.
Circle: Inner Circle of Friends and Support
- Trina discusses rating the quality of the people in one’s inner circle, including friends, coworkers, and peers.
- She asks listeners to consider the support, encouragement, and quality of their friendships.
- Trina shares her own rating of five and encourages listeners to write down what is going well in their circle.
- She advises listeners to take action if their rating is below a five, such as reaching out to former friends or joining a mastermind group.
Adventure: Finding Joy and New Experiences
- Trina talks about rating adventure, including new experiences, hobbies, and travel.
- She asks listeners to consider how they can add more color and joy to their lives through adventure.
- Trina shares her own rating of 4.5 and suggests potential action steps for those who are not satisfied with their adventure level.
- She emphasizes the importance of capturing what is going well and what needs improvement.
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Trina Gray
Mentor, Speaker, Entrepreneur
Host of the Calm & Confident Podcast